Lets keep this short and sweet. Love in its truest form is acceptance, and acceptance brings us a sense of trust, know that no matter what happens all will be well. It is in this space that we can become comfortable with uncertainty and open ourselves up to the many amazing possibilities that the world has in store for us.
In the second installment of relationships I discuss with you the value in chosen relationships, the ones we voluntarily enter into. Each relationship is an amazing opportunity to experience another, but also to experience ourselves in relation to another. That being said, step one within a relationship is to honor yourself, step two is to honor the relationship.
Again, a relationship reading is an incredible way to gain clarity in the relationships within your life, whether they are good or bad. For more information on the reading please Click Here. For more information on a Soul Realignment and the general process, please Click Here. In a relationship reading the first part reviews the two different Souls, similar to a Soul Realignment. The second part connects the two Souls and analyzes each Soul's part within this particular relationships, and relationships in general.
In this video I discuss the relationships that you are born into and thus cannot (easily) leave, such as with family members. Understanding relationships from the Soul's perspective and how to use these relationships to enhance and expand your experience in this lifetime. Remember, from a Soul's perspective everything is about YOU and how it affects you, so learn to work relationships so that you are benefitting. This doesn't mean that you are taking, it means that you are learning or receiving in some capacity, good or bad. It if is a difficult relationship you want to at least learn more about yourself and create the boundaries that best support you!
I also explain the relationship reading, which can be found on my Additional Readings page. The relationship reading is a phenomenal way to better understand the relationships that you live through. It gives you a better understanding of the person you are in a relationship with, the lessons to experience from the relationship, your greatest connections and limitations and based on these points you learn to better interact with this person in a more substantial and supportive way.
Welcome to your life, it is happening right before your eyes. Don't try to find the pause button, because there is none. So the more time you spend judging and analyzing how it could be better, the more time you lose. I'm not telling you to speed up or do more, I am telling you to place more intention behind every thought, emotion and action that you engage with.
How is life right now? Are you happy with where you are today, and the emotions/sensations that your present life situation is bringing to you? If you aren't happy with where you are, then what can you do about it?
Let's answer that last question without judgment! Judgment is the least productive thing possible because it starts you off in the negative, that is to say that it starts off the process of change with being wrong. Going on a diet because you hate your body isn't going to be an exhausting and depressing process that will destroy self esteem, going on a diet because you want to feel better every day will help you make slow progress in a positive direction with a loving mentality.
Slow progress is necessary, if you hate where you are now and you want to be/do something completely different that is a whole lot for any individual to take on. Why would you try to climb a 10' ledge when there are stairs right next to it? Don't disown your current situation, use it. This is your first step on that set of stairs, your ground zero. Know where you want to end up, but before you start you need to know how to get there. If you were on a diet don't go from eating potato chips to steamed kale, your taste buds will hate you. Everything takes time, go gently and lovingly down the path so you don't set yourself up for judgment and failure! We are trained and persuaded that success only comes from pounding the pavement with some real intense actions. This probably works for 5% of the population. The rest need to create small milestones, attain them easily, then celebrate the heck out of it. We can all achieve success, whether you want to do it with stress or with a smile is up to you!
In a Soul Realignment reading I review with you all the magnificent things that you are. At no point will I tell you that you are unmotivated, overweight, poor, sad, angry, etc. I tell you that you are a Soulful being with unlimited capabilities who came into this life with some amazing qualities and tools to help experience yourself in the most positive, loving, successful way possible.
So stop for a moment and check in. Fill yourself up with all that love because regardless of where you could be, or should be, or wish you were right now, you are right here so make the most of it and use it as a stepping stone to where you want the 'now' to be in the future.
To my dearest friend who is living the life of humanity,
We go through life with so much judgment on our shoulders, sometimes it's terrifying and entirely exhausting. I have an overwhelming desire to tell you that you are going to be ok, because there is a light within you that is so powerful you can't even begin to understand it. I want to take all of your mistakes, your fears, your weaknesses and send them off into the universe never to be seen again. Release you from the pain that has darkened your days. I want to teach you how you can fill up all those vacant spaces with love, joy, abundance, wisdom and power. Reignite your spark of God that reminds you that you are divine, deserving of everything and capable of anything. I want to remind you that we all mess up, we do it quite regularly and we do it quite well. But then we learn, we evolve, we get better because there is always another day and a new opportunity to look at the sun and feel its warmth, find a new inspiration and begin a new journey to greatness. Finally my friend, I want you to know that although I can aid you in this process, the power is within you; My power exists because I can see the magical spark of life that is deep within you.
You are not wrong, you are beautiful and you are always enough.
Your advocate for life
You have the tools within you the create unlimited love, power and abundance... it's just a matter of knowing that you have them and learning how to use them properly!
Food for thought...
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With the end of the summer drawing near and kids going back to school there is a shift currently happening that draws us back into ourselves. It's easy to lose track of ourselves and our needs in a time of quick movement and lots of action. The summer is a wonderful time to get out there, the energy is very airy and fiery, not much thinking but lots of doing. It's a great energy to experience and there is a certain degree of presence in that energy. This period is followed by autumn, a wonderful time to ground, make slower more deliberate actions, less doing more being, reflecting, observing. With this energy is the perfect opportunity for self care, one of the most overlooked and underutilized roles we have. We are taught that self care is indulgent, so if you are partaking in it you are indulging, which means that too much of it makes you selfish and selfish is bad. Well self care doesn't need to be indulgent, but it does need to happen. If we continuously plow through life without stopping and checking in with what we need we quickly become depleted. Once we become depleted it's like a snowball effect of sh*t, we become angry, sad, tired, anxious, doubtful, etc. etc. The only way to come out of these bouts of negativity and "stuckness" is through reconnection to ourselves to reconnect with our inner source for love and power. (Side note: love = power). So whether it is a continuous flow on a daily basis of doing things to care for yourself, or more deliberate actions of rest and restoration, it is necessary!
The more we care for ourselves the more capable we become of caring for others. If you constantly give without refilling your tank will eventually empty leaving you with nothing. You must constantly refill your tank so that you have plenty for yourself but also to share with those around you. So make no excuses, do what you need to do!
Chelsea M Latham
When I was a kid my mom would occasionally refer to me as a Reverend, because I had the need to speak so passionately about just about everything. Little did she know that some day I would build a business upon sharing the wisdom that I am so passionate about. So here you go, here are some bits and bobs of thoughts strung together for your enjoyment.