Don't like what you have? Change it!

In my Soul Realignment work I often discuss that you are the creator of your own reality. Free will and free choice are two laws of the universe that are innately there, you do not have to EARN them! It's a beautiful pill that can be difficult to swallow, because on the other side is the idea that you are NEVER the victim. Being the victim is a wonderful crutch to rest all of your pain upon, all those awful things happened to you. The sad reality of it is that nothing happens to you, it happens with you. Any negativity you are experiencing you are either engaging with it or allowing it to negatively affect you. Once you recognize this and start to embrace this theory you suddenly gain all the power in the world. If you hit a period of life that is not working for you, there are two options

1. Change your situation
   
2. Change your perspective of the situation
   

YES it really is that simple! 

BUT, as simple as it is, it doesn't mean it is easy. You go through a horrible break-up, you lose your job, your friend is sick, these things are hard and they can be painful. Life isn't this glorious Eden, there is a lot of sh*t. Negatively is all around us, but the difference with this idea is that you don't let it penetrate you to the core! You get into arguments, you experience pain, sadness, anxiety, but you remember that you are not all of those negative sensations. Those sensations are like layers that have been added to you and at any point you can undress those layers and return to the positive person you truly are. It takes work, lots of mindfulness, practice and patience but the more aware you are of this idea the more you can nip these negative situations in the bud before they turn into a week, month, year or your whole life experience. Always remember, you are powerful, abundant, loving and above all magnificent.